Know What You Bring to the Table
First things first: you need to know your worth, and I mean know it. It’s not just about looking cute (though that’s important); it’s about being the type of partner your SD can’t wait to spoil. Maybe you’re a great conversationalist, a social butterfly who lights up any room, or that supportive listener he can’t find anywhere else. Find what makes you shine, and own it.
Set the Spoiling Standard from Day One
Communication is everything. From the very first conversation, let him know what kind of girl you are—one who expects a certain level of treatment. Drop hints about the kinds of dates you love (if “dinner with a view” is your thing, say it) or places you want to visit. Setting the bar early shows you’re looking for someone who values quality time and memorable experiences… and who’s willing to put in the effort to make you feel cherished. It’s not about making demands but setting standards.
Be His Escape (Make It Fun)
An SD often has a busy, maybe stressful life, and he’s probably looking for a way to escape and enjoy his time with you. Be the person who lights up his day—someone he can’t wait to see because you’re fun, flirty, and leave the stress at the door. Laugh at his jokes, surprise him with a spontaneous plan, keep conversations fresh, and remind him that he can be himself around you. A little mystery and humor go a long way here. If he’s relaxed and happy around you, he’s more likely to spoil you.
Show Genuine Appreciation
Men love to feel appreciated. It doesn’t matter if he’s sending you a cute little gift or splurging on a weekend trip—let him know how much it means to you. Send that sweet, grateful text after a date, or surprise him with a cute selfie when you’re enjoying something he got you. Showing appreciation isn’t just polite; it reminds him that you see his efforts. And let’s face it—when he feels valued, he’ll want to keep doing things that make you happy.
Spoiled Girlfriend Essentials:
- Set high standards and stick to them.
- Keep it fun, light, and playful.
- Drop subtle hints about your “wishlist” items.
- Show genuine appreciation.
- Keep him guessing by staying a little mysterious.
DON’T
- Demand things outright or make it transactional.
- Make him feel obligated.
- Neglect your own interests and hobbies.
Being a spoiled girlfriend isn’t about being a “gold digger” or “high maintenance”; it’s about setting standards and enjoying the company of someone who wants to treat you like a gem. Let him take the lead in spoiling you, and all you need to do is be your charming self and appreciate every moment of it.